农村适婚青年之殇:彩礼功能的异化及风险——基于陕西省L村的思考
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摘要
缔结婚姻在个体的生命历程中具有重要的意义,是影响其人生幸福的关键因素;对于国家和社会来说,更是具有维护社会安定与和谐的功能。然而,近年来彩礼在缔结婚姻的过程中却从礼节性的支付转变成了工具性的赤裸裸的物质基础,即彩礼功能的异化,高价彩礼层出不穷且愈演愈烈,已然成为了特别是广大农村青年实现从个体到新生家庭这个重要生命历程转变道路上的绊脚石,同时也伴随着风险:部分家庭为支付高额彩礼以至于出现不同程度的因婚致贫、因婚反贫的现象,严重阻碍了家庭脱贫致富奔小康的进程。因此,基于对陕西省的L村进行实地走访,采取参与观察和深度访谈的方法对这一彩礼功能性的转变加以分析,进而尝试提出切实可行的解决方法。
The conclusion of marriage has important significance in the course of individual's life,and it is also the key factor that affects the happiness of his life.For the country and society,it is the function of maintaining social stability and harmony.However,in recent years,the function of the bride price has gradually emerged alienation: from the formal payment to the naked material basis of the instrumental marriage, that is, the high price of the bride price has emerged and intensified.It has become a stumbling block to the transformation of the important life course from individual to new family,especially in rural youth;At the same time,it is also accompanied by risks: some families even have different degrees of poverty due to marriage,marriage and poverty, which has seriously hindered the process of families getting out of poverty and getting rich and running for a well-off.Therefore, based on the field visit to L village in Shaanxi Province, we take the method of participating in observation and in-depth interview to analyze the functional transformation of the bride price, and then try to propose a practical solution.
The conclusion of marriage has important significance in the course of individual's life,and it is also the key factor that affects the happiness of his life.For the country and society,it is the function of maintaining social stability and harmony.However,in recent years,the function of the bride price has gradually emerged alienation: from the formal payment to the naked material basis of the instrumental marriage, that is, the high price of the bride price has emerged and intensified.It has become a stumbling block to the transformation of the important life course from individual to new family,especially in rural youth;At the same time,it is also accompanied by risks: some families even have different degrees of poverty due to marriage,marriage and poverty, which has seriously hindered the process of families getting out of poverty and getting rich and running for a well-off.Therefore, based on the field visit to L village in Shaanxi Province, we take the method of participating in observation and in-depth interview to analyze the functional transformation of the bride price, and then try to propose a practical solution.
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