期权、婚恋扶贫与相亲经济分析
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摘要
相亲是双方主体的一种利益选择行为,绝大多数会采取"往上看"的选择策略。相亲活动类似于购买一种看涨期权,相亲选择呈现出五种不同的情形:一是"嫁鸡随鸡,嫁狗随狗"的选择行为,二是"上门女婿"的选择行为,三是物质与财产合并的选择行为,四是精神融合的选择行为,五是需要婚恋扶贫的情形。从相亲的视角可以清晰地看出家庭与社会结构的变迁轨迹。相亲、城市空间聚集与城市发展之间关联紧密,城市空间与人口的聚集推动家庭生活成本的不断上升,而相亲选择更是放大了家庭生活成本,会压缩家庭的幸福指数。相亲经济是一种与市场经济截然不同的经济形式,市场经济由"看不见的手"来调节资源并达到优化,相亲经济并无"看不见的手"来调节以达到优化。自由恋爱、亲友介入与相亲经济是我国城乡经济发展过程中左右婚恋相亲行为的3种不同力量,而相亲经济更是一种内生变量。
Blind date is an act of mutual interest choice of both parties and most people tend to adopt a"looking upward"strategy. Blind dating,similar to buying a call option,presents five different situations:1."follow the man you marry,be he fowl or cur";2. be a live-in son-in-law;3. merge materials and properties of the two sides;4. seek spiritual blending;5. expect a marriage to alleviate poverty. The changes of family and social structures can be clearly seen from the blind-date perspective. Blind date,urban spatial agglomeration,and urban development are closely related to one another. The urban space and population aggregation propels the continuous increase of families‘ living cost,and blind date further expands the cost and will reduce families' index of happiness. Blind-date economy is totally different from the market economy;the market economy can be optimized through resource adjustment by an"invisible hand"while the blind-date economy does not have such a hand to do so. Freedom to choose one‘s spouse,involvement of relatives or friends,and blind date are three different forces that can manipulate marriage and matchmaking behaviors during China's urban and rural economic development process and the blind-date economy is more an endogenous variable.
Blind date is an act of mutual interest choice of both parties and most people tend to adopt a"looking upward"strategy. Blind dating,similar to buying a call option,presents five different situations:1."follow the man you marry,be he fowl or cur";2. be a live-in son-in-law;3. merge materials and properties of the two sides;4. seek spiritual blending;5. expect a marriage to alleviate poverty. The changes of family and social structures can be clearly seen from the blind-date perspective. Blind date,urban spatial agglomeration,and urban development are closely related to one another. The urban space and population aggregation propels the continuous increase of families‘ living cost,and blind date further expands the cost and will reduce families' index of happiness. Blind-date economy is totally different from the market economy;the market economy can be optimized through resource adjustment by an"invisible hand"while the blind-date economy does not have such a hand to do so. Freedom to choose one‘s spouse,involvement of relatives or friends,and blind date are three different forces that can manipulate marriage and matchmaking behaviors during China's urban and rural economic development process and the blind-date economy is more an endogenous variable.
引文
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