扎根理论视角下大学生的恋爱过程
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摘要
基于扎根理论,根据恋爱次数,将大学生分为少经验和有经验人群,与毕业后的职场人士恋爱过程比较研究发现,大学生中有经验型和少经验型人群的恋爱过程呈现出显著的不同:前者恋爱主要以内在情感依恋为导向,而后者则是外在现实需求为导向。通过对恋爱过程的分析,将恋爱的动机、结果相关联,可知大学生高分手率的原因主要有冲动的性格特点,追求自由的恋爱心理以及对未来的盲目自信。
Adopting a grounded theory approach,we grouped college students into two types based on the number of relationships they had been through: one with many romantic experiences whilethe other with few. Upon comparison with the graduated workers,we found that the romantic relationship process of the two groupsis significantly different. The first group is guided by emotional attachments during the process,while the latter is guided by external materialistic needs. From the analysis of romantic relationship process with the consideration of their motivation and ending of romantic relationship,we discussed the reasons of college students' high breakup rate: the impulsive personality,desire to pursue freedom,and blind confidence for future.
Adopting a grounded theory approach,we grouped college students into two types based on the number of relationships they had been through: one with many romantic experiences whilethe other with few. Upon comparison with the graduated workers,we found that the romantic relationship process of the two groupsis significantly different. The first group is guided by emotional attachments during the process,while the latter is guided by external materialistic needs. From the analysis of romantic relationship process with the consideration of their motivation and ending of romantic relationship,we discussed the reasons of college students' high breakup rate: the impulsive personality,desire to pursue freedom,and blind confidence for future.
引文
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[13]许兴建.婚恋依恋研究进展[J].中国临床心理学杂志,2006,14(2):197-199.
[14]肖君政,江光荣.成人依恋理论的研究[J].中华行为医学与脑科学杂志,2006,15(9):859-860.
[15]王岩,王大华.成人依恋的稳定性[J].心理发展与教育,2012,28(4):442-448.
[16]Sternberg R J.The triangle of love[M].New York:Basic Books,1988:123.
[17]Jhony Choon Yeong Ng,邵丹慧,贾良定,等.一群去专业化的人——斜杠青年的事业发展研究[J].中国人力资源开发,35(6):109-120.
[18]Sperling MB,Berman WH.Attachment in adults:clinical and developmental perspectives[M].New York:Guilford Press,1994:136.
[19]Bowlby J.Attachment and Loss:Attachment[M].New York:Basic Books,1960:241.
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[21]李忠端.对大学生恋爱的几点看法[J].佳木斯大学社会科学学报,2001,19(6):88-89.
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[23]沈娟.新疆少数民族大学生婚恋观存在的问题[J].辽宁行政学院学报,2009,11(9):173-174.
[24]李春杰.韩剧文化现象对我国大学生爱情观的影响[D].长春:吉林大学,2008:1.